Institute Provides Education, Support and Connection for Families of Children with Hearing Loss
Illinois families gained knowledge and formed priceless relationships during the 2023 Institute for Parents of Preschool Children Who Are Deaf or Hard of Hearing.
The journey to the 2023 Institute for Parents of Preschool Children Who Are Deaf or Hard of Hearing was a mixture of excitement, nerves and some fear for Kelly Lane and Crystal Harris.
When they received the flyer for the free one-week program at the Illinois School for the Deaf in Jacksonville, they were skeptical it would be the right fit for their son, Casper.
Casper, 4, has bilateral hearing loss, epilepsy and a developmental delay.
“We’ve been to other events on a smaller scale before that were geared towards families with kids who have hearing loss and felt out of place there because our son also has other disabilities,” Kelly said.
Crystal called the number on the flyer and spoke with Violet Wiker, the Family Liaison for the University of Illinois Chicago’s Division of Specialized Care for Children. Violet helps families enroll in the Institute and addresses any questions or concerns they may have.
Crystal said she talked to Violet for more than two hours.
“She assured me that there were kids of all different learning abilities here, that they would be in a classroom setting… she really sold it to me, really made me feel comfortable,” Crystal said.
She and Kelly then made the trip from Chicago with Casper and his big brother, Courtland. Once they arrived on the School for the Deaf campus, they knew they made the right choice.
“We couldn’t have felt more welcome… We’re used to feeling out of place, so it felt really good to come somewhere and feel normal for once,” Kelly said. “Coming here just felt like going home.”
A total of 22 families from across the state attended this year’s Institute from June 11-16. The Institute is for Illinois parents of children from birth to age 7 who have a significant hearing loss.
Participating parents attend daily lectures by experts in the field to learn about raising a child with hearing loss. Lecture topics include:
- Child development
- Types of hearing loss
- Language development
- Communication choices
- Assistive communication devices
- Deaf culture
- School programming
Other activities include meeting in small groups to discuss specific concerns and connecting with other caregivers.
The children with hearing loss attend classrooms based on their age group. Experienced teachers and aides for children who are deaf or hard of hearing oversee these classrooms.
Attending children also can receive hearing, vision, psychological, speech, language and educational evaluations. They also get to play with other children who have a hearing loss.
Siblings also attend the Institute and participate in fun and educational activities, including art projects and learning to sign.
There is no cost for families to participate in the Institute. Meals and housing are provided at no charge.
“One place, all questions answered”
Laura Colic’s son Liam is almost 5 and profoundly deaf. He wears bilateral cochlear implants that he’s had for a little over a year.
“I just wanted to get as much information to make sure that we give him all the opportunities, especially since he’s starting kindergarten in the fall,” Laura said of her decision to attend.
One of her favorite experiences from the week was listening to a panel of Deaf adults share their experiences.
“When you’re in it with little ones, it’s hard to see what that may look like as they grow up. I love the exposure to just the Deaf culture. Even Liam has loved that. He has been so excited to see adults with cochlear implants” she said.
Laura also praised the knowledge of the team of professionals who spoke with families and provided evaluations for the children.
“Their knowledge is phenomenal, and I feel like it’s golden,” she said.
“I wish I could take them with me back home and just create this bubble for Liam. But I’m happy to take the knowledge that they’ve given me, the assessments they’ve provided, the one-to-one time with each of the different people that have worked with Liam and assessed Liam. The evaluations are just phenomenal.”
Sylvia Gavina is mom to 4-year-old Freddy. She appreciated the opportunity to see and understand what Freddy’s hearing loss truly means for him.
“Being able to meet with the professionals and learn what we did in a week takes it to a different level. At home, you might have an appointment one week and then wait three months for the next one. Here, we are leaving with a baseline. One place, all questions answered,” she said.
Sheryl Stone’s daughter Nevaeh is 4 ½ and attends the Illinois School for the Deaf. She said the Institute gave her an eye-opening look into how Nevaeh experiences the world. An education session on the Deaf experience helped her understand better what it’s like to not hear and to rely on lip-reading, sign language and other communication methods.
Eddi Fowler said she also learned how to better communicate with her 2 ½-year-old daughter, Kacey. In addition to learning American Sign Language (ASL) and cued speech, Eddi learned more about available resources and how to advocate for Kacey.
“I learned a lot, and I have a lot to take back home with me. I’ve got gigantic paperwork that’s going to help Kacey and my little family throughout the year with her education needs, her hearing loss, her autism, everything,” Eddi said.
“A community of families”
Three-year-old Christian has hearing loss in both of his ears. His parents Basia and Aaron said watching their son become more social with the other children was especially rewarding.
“He’s more expressive. With all the signing and the cued speech that we’re integrating, he’s using his hands more, different modes of communication. That’s something that we were really trying hard to get out of him at home and it’s been tough. But he seemed to really just open up to more people and other children as well,” Aaron said.
Sarah Berns attended the Institute with her son, Colsen, and daughter, Evelyn. Colsen, 7, was born with bilateral sensorineural hearing loss. However, his family was not aware of his hearing loss until he was 3 years old.
The Institute was the first time he could see other kids with hearing aids and cochlear implants and simply play with them and have fun.
Sarah said she also found a special connection with the other parents.
“I felt like I was all alone. And now I feel like I have a community of families that I can call when I need to talk to them about anything. I also got a lot of information about what my son is going through and what it’s like to be hearing impaired, which is the best connection that I could have with my son, and knowing more about him and what he needs,” she said.
The Institute was also just as valuable for Colsen’s big sister Evelyn.
“She sees that (hearing loss) isn’t something that’s terrible, her brother isn’t annoying, and that there’s this really cool language now that we can have between us that she wasn’t interested in before,” Sarah said. “There’s value in it for her… she has a newfound empathy that she didn’t have before.”
Sarah encourages all families of children with hearing loss to make the trip to the Institute.
“It is life-changing. There are people that value you for who you are, and they are only here to help and give you strategies to help you,” she said.
“A sense of comfort”
After spending a week at the Institute, Kelly and Crystal said they didn’t want to leave.
“We’re not ready to go home. This past week, I’ve felt a sense of comfort that I haven’t felt in a very long time,” Crystal said.
“And that’s saying a lot considering how much information overload has been happening,” Kelly added. “I feel like we should be feeling frazzled and overwhelmed with the amount of new information we’ve gotten, but instead I just feel clarity. I feel clear on where my son’s at, where we need to go, and the options that we have and resources that we have at our disposal.”
Sarah shared a similar sense of peace and optimism for her son, Colsen, after attending the Institute.
“Even though life is not the same plan I thought it was going to be, it’s still going to be wonderful…” she said. “Seeing these other people going through this and through their life, how their life has been impacted by having hearing loss, I realize that (Colsen) really hasn’t lost anything. He is just experiencing it in a different way, and that that’s OK, and that we’re going to be OK.”
The following organizations supported the 2023 Institute:
- University of Illinois at Chicago’s Division of Specialized Care for Children (DSCC)
- Department of Human Services – Division of Rehabilitation Services
- Illinois School for the Deaf
- Illinois State Board of Education
- Illinois Department of Public Health
- Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago
The 2024 Institute will take place June 13-16. Please see the below flyers for more details:
For more information about the Institute and how DSCC supports children with hearing loss, call (800) 322-3722 or email email@example.com.
2022 Transition Conference Prepares Youth With Disabilities for Adulthood
The annual Stepping Stones of Transition Conference gives families and professionals valuable resources and information to support youth on the path to adulthood.
Sixteen-year-old Ayla Etheridge says she’s faced many surgeries and physical limitations throughout her life.
She was born with a spinal lipoma (a mass of fatty tissue) and has experienced nerve damage and scoliosis. At one point, she needed a tracheostomy to breathe.
Ayla now uses a wheelchair and credits her physical challenges with “making my brain better.”
“I always bounce back and don’t want to just sit around and get depressed,” she said.
Ayla is also a careful planner, extremely tech-savvy and loves gaming, character design and writing.
As she attended the Illinois Statewide Transition Conference, Ayla thought more about how these interests and skills will shape her future and career goals.
“I’m very independent and would like to do more things myself,” Ayla said. “This conference has kind of helped me visualize and think about my next steps.”
The 17th annual transition conference, titled “Stepping Stones of Transition,” took place in East Peoria on Nov. 3-4. The conference helps both families and professionals learn about the resources, information and opportunities available for youth with disabilities as they prepare for adulthood.
Ayla and her mom, Rachel, were among nearly 450 people who attended in person.
The University of Illinois Chicago’s Division of Specialized Care for Children (DSCC) helps sponsor the conference and serves on its steering committee.
DSCC also covered the related costs for 34 of our participant family members to attend, including the Etheridges and the Barraza family.
“I am so thankful to DSCC for the fact they covered the cost to be here. That made a big difference in us being able to attend,” Anita Barraza said.
“Education empowers me”
Anita’s son, Daniel, 17, is a DSCC participant. His older sister Diana, 22, left DSCC last summer.
All three attended together along with dad, Jose, and Anita’s mother-in-law, who helped care for Daniel and Diana when they needed a break from conference activities.
“It was great to have my husband be able to be part of the process and that both he and I could listen and take in the information,” Anita said. “(The conference) is also a nice way to spend time together as a family. It’s almost like a mini-vacation for us.”
Anita is an occupational therapist who works with school children, so she understands both sides of the need for information and resources when supporting young adults with disabilities.
“As a parent, we can feel so overwhelmed. Even if help is right there, that reach can be hard to do,” Anita said.
That’s why opportunities to learn about a variety of resources and network with other families and professionals are so important.
“These types of resources educate me on how to best provide for my children’s needs and for their future,” Anita said
Both Daniel and Diana have significant medical needs and are unable to safely live on their own.
Anita says it’s hard to think about, but she realizes must start planning for who can care for Daniel and Diana when she and her husband can no longer do it. Residential placement may be necessary in the future.
The Barrazas also want to learn about possible day programs that can offer one-on-one support to Diana and possible employment options that would work well with her needs.
“Education empowers me to be better prepared to help (Diana and Daniel) have a good quality of life,” Anita said.
“One step ahead”
Anita had told two other DSCC moms about the conference and encouraged them to attend. One of those moms is her friend Yessy Castillo.
Though Yessy’s son, Jacob Ortiz, is only 4 years old, she knew it was important to go.
“I want to be aware of what services are available for Jacob,” Yessy said. “Most importantly, I want to be one step ahead. This conference allows me to get the information on what can benefit Jacob.”
Jacob was born with a cleft palate, an underdeveloped jaw and his tongue pushed back toward his throat. He also had malformations in his hands and feet, and his intestines did not rotate appropriately.
Jacob now has a tracheostomy and depends on a ventilator 24-7 to breathe.
“I appreciate getting the opportunity to meet people and attorneys for advice and support and more legal information on Jacob’s rights,” she said. “If I was not exposed to these events, I wouldn’t know what is available.”
While Yessy speaks limited English, she said the presentations all gave information in a way she could understand.
Melania Tinoco, who also speaks Spanish and learned about the conference from Anita, said connecting with other families at the conference helps her feel more confident.
“It helps seeing we’re all in the same boat and finding out we aren’t alone,” Melania said.
Her daughter Jeny is 14 and has been a DSCC participant since birth. Jeny has Pitt-Hopkins Syndrome, a rare genetic and neurological condition that causes developmental delays.
Melania said the conference has helped her plan for what happens to Jeny if she gets sick and/or can’t take care of her daughter. She also appreciated the breakout sessions on helping youth with disabilities respect their body and feel empowered to say “no.”
“The information has been helpful and inspirational,” Melania said.
Putting information into action
The conference consisted of informative breakout sessions in the areas of employment, education, health care and more.
DSCC participant Vera Lynn Lindquist, 17, and her grandmother, Cheryl Lindquist Calcese, said they enjoyed the “Awareness and Transition Services for Students with Disabilities” session. It gave them helpful information on sex education and tips for building good money management skills.
Cheryl is Vera’s legal guardian. She and Vera planned to start a new budget at home after the conference. Vera will get paid for doing chores, such as cleaning her room, helping with the laundry and feeding her two dogs and cat. She will also get a debit card so she can buy things and track her spending.
Vera has autism, attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, anxiety disorder from childhood, tinnitus and hearing loss, and seizures.
She enjoys being an advocate, helping others and encouraging everyone to be kind.
During the breakout session, “Your Story Has Power: Great Expectations and Pieces of the Self-Advocacy Puzzle,” Vera stood up and actively participated during the presentation.
Vera and Cheryl hope to attend the transition conference again next year.
DSCC participant Sabrina Doueihi, 20, was among several self-advocates who shared their perspectives during the “Transition Success Stories” breakout session. She is currently a junior at Bradley College, where she is studying criminology. She hopes to go to law school and become a prosecutor.
Sabrina spoke about the importance of staying true to yourself and what you want to do. She also recommended that youth with disabilities focus on what they can do and who can help them achieve their goals.
“Trade stories and network”
For brothers Jaysen and Justen McMenamin and their parents, the transition conference was a good opportunity to plan for life after high school.
Jaysen McMenamin, 18, is a senior at Woodland High School near Streator, where he is an honor roll student and honorary captain of the school’s football team.
He says he’s interested in digital media and related job opportunities. But, he’s still deciding on the path that’s right for him after graduation.
Justen, 14, is a freshman at Woodland High and interested in coding. Both brothers have Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy and are enrolled with DSCC.
Their stepfather, Charles Cusick, said the family wanted to learn more about jobs and career fields that are accessible for the boys and provide more opportunities than what’s available in their small community.
They were also seeking information about camps and other recreation programs for Jaysen now that he has aged out of other programs.
The brothers enjoyed talking with some of the vendors about college resources, job coaching and training programs, and future housing opportunities.
Jaysen would like to live on his own but needs to make sure he has the right supports in place.
The brothers’ mom, Deanna Cox, said she appreciated the breakout session on Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits. Jaysen and Justen’s dad passed away in June, and the session helped her better understand how to help her boys keep the benefits they’re entitled to.
The family met up with their DSCC Care Coordinator Kristin Lenover during the conference.
“If families can get away from work, there’s so much they will get out of being at the transition conference,” Kristin said. “Attending in person gives you so much access to all kinds of information. There are also opportunities to meet other families, trade stories and network.”
Thirty DSCC team members attended the conference to network, learn from others and strengthen their skillsets and tools to serve participant families.
DSCC also sponsored the conference’s healthcare track for providers who play a role in the transition from the pediatric to adult healthcare system and those who build youth’s capacity and healthcare skills to prepare for adulthood.
DSCC Transition Specialist Darcy Contri has helped plan the conference since it began 17 years ago. This year’s event was her last before she retires.
“I’m so grateful for and have loved being part of this great work,” Darcy said. “Partnering with talented people from organizations across the state to help others has made a positive difference in so many lives. It is my hope the annual conference will continue to make an impact on improving adult outcomes for youth with disabilities for many more years.”
Visit our Facebook page to see more photos from this year’s conference.
Formula Shortage Resources for Families
Helpful information and tips to find formula and keep children healthy
The infant formula shortage continues to affect families across the country.
Formula is not only important for babies’ nutrition but also for some young children, teens and adults with medical needs.
Several resources are available nationwide and here in Illinois to help families during the shortage:
- The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) website has resources in a variety of languages to help families find infant formula during the shortage. These resources include information on safe substitutes, formula company contacts and community programs.
- The Illinois Department of Human Services (IDHS) has trained caseworkers to help families with formula questions. You can contact the IDHS Help Line at (800) 843-6154. The Help Line is primarily for Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) and Women, Infants and Children (WIC) participants but is open to all Illinois residents.
- For Illinois WIC participants, a waiver now allows for flexibility in the size and type of formula available to buy with WIC benefits. More details are on IDHS’ “Having Trouble Finding Formula” page.
- Illinois WIC programs also provide a wide range of support for breastfeeding mothers and funds for healthy foods, including fresh fruits and vegetables. More information and updates can be found on the Illinois WIC website. Families can also call (217) 782-2166 for additional support
- Illinois WIC programs also provide a wide range of support for breastfeeding mothers and funds for healthy foods, including fresh fruits and vegetables. More information and updates can be found on the Illinois WIC website. Families can also call (217) 782-2166 for additional support
- HealthyChildren.org, the parenting website of the American Academy of Pediatrics, provides tips on finding baby formula during the shortage and what you may safely consider if you can’t find any. The site is updated regularly with helpful information and the latest guidance.
- The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has released information on the international formulas that will soon be on store shelves in the United States. Some of these formulas have different mixing guidance and will require conversion from milliliters to ounces. The FDA has a “Tips for Preparing Imported Infant Formula” handout available to help. (The handout is also available in Spanish.)
Remember that you should not water down your baby’s formula to stretch it out. You also should not make formula at home or discard formula unless it is expired or part of the recall.
HHS notes that in most cases, you can feed your baby any brand of formula that is available.
If your child has special health needs, be sure to check with their doctor about medically appropriate and safe feeding alternatives. Your doctor may have samples in stock or know of other local organizations that can help.
Please contact your pediatrician for guidance on adjusting feeding practices and be sure to stay in touch about any issues or concerns with your child’s nutrition.
Resources for LGBTQ+ Youth With Disabilities and Their Families
DSCC aims to help families strengthen their support to promote young people’s health, safety and wellbeing.
The University of Illinois Chicago’s Division of Specialized Care for Children (DSCC) wants to help Illinois families strengthen their support for LGBTQ+ youth with special healthcare needs and disabilities.
June is Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer (LGBTQ+) Pride Month. There are approximately 5 million LGBTQ+ individuals with disabilities in the United States, according to the nonprofit RespectAbility.
Our DSCC team can provide resources to help our participant families, healthcare providers and community partners understand and support LGBTQ+ youth and their needs.
Research shows that family involvement in an LGBTQ+ youth’s life, particularly in the first two years of coming out, improves their overall safety, health and long-term well-being.
Teaching children about self-awareness and self-care at a young age can lead to better health and safety as a teenager. Helping a child establish boundaries is also linked to better teen health and safety.
Former DSCC Quality Specialist Diane Becker has studied research in these areas. Diane is a nationally certified juvenile treatment specialist and a licensed clinical social worker. She has worked with families and professionals in the social work and counseling fields for 30-plus years.
Diane appeared on the “Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen” podcast last year to talk about mental health, boundaries and self-care for both LGBTQ+ young adults and parents.
She shared the latest research and discussed the importance of connectedness, family and health and safety.
You can listen to Diane’s two-part interview at the links below –
- What Are These Boundaries You Speak Of? An Interview with Diane Becker Part One
- What Are These Boundaries You Speak Of? An Interview with Diane Becker Part Two
We also encourage Illinois families of LGBTQ+ youth with special healthcare needs to contact us with their questions and concerns. You can call us at (800) 322-3722 or email us at firstname.lastname@example.org to learn more about available resources and support.
You can also visit our online Resource Directory.
Featured resources that can help support LGBTQ+ youth and their family/caregivers include:
National and Statewide Crisis Hotlines
- Find a Helpline
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
- The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s (SAMHSA) National Helpline
- Illinois Crisis and Referral Entry Services (CARES) Line
- Illinois Warm Line
- National Runaway Safeline
- The Trevor Project
- Central Illinois LGBTQ+ Organizations
- Chicago and Illinois Mental Health Agencies and Organizations
- Strong Family Alliance
- PFLAG Parent Support and Resources
- “Expressing, Coping, Reframing: Addressing the Mental Health of ‘Quaranteens’ in the Time of COVID-19”
- It Gets Better Project
Find a Healthcare Provider
- University of Illinois Hospital & Clinics’ Inclusive Healthcare and Policies
- Gender Development Program at Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago
- OutCare Provider Directory
- Illinois State Board of Education LGBTQ Student and Family Resources
- Advocating for LGBTQ Students With Disabilities
- Know Your Rights: Students and LGBTQ Rights at School
Remote Learning Tips and Tools for Families
Resources to help support children and youth of all abilities.
This year’s return to school is a partial or completely virtual experience for many Illinois students amid the COVID-19 pandemic.
Parents and caregivers must navigate how to best support their children and make the school year as engaging and beneficial as possible for their unique needs.
To help families adapt to these unusual circumstances, the Division of Specialized Care for Children team has compiled a list of tips and tools for remote learning in the following categories:
- Students With Disabilities
- General Remote Learning
- Early Childhood
- Transition-Age Youth and Adults
We’ve put these items together in our latest resource roundup newsletter.
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Resources to Discuss Racism and Traumatic Events with Children
The American Academy of Pediatrics provides helpful resources and tips for families to have these important conversations.
Racism is harmful to our communities.
The Division of Specialized Care for Children (DSCC) shares the University’s commitment to addressing the injustice of racism and promoting equity and inclusion for all.
Racism can create toxic stress in children, teens and families that negatively affects their health and development, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP).
During these stressful and tumultuous times, families may struggle with how to discuss the issues of race and discrimination with their children.
AAP and HealthyChildren.org, the official parenting website of the AAP, provide the following resources and tips to help your family determine what is age and developmentally appropriate for your child:
- American Academy of Pediatrics Condemns Racism, Offers Advice for Families for How to Talk to Their Children
- Talking to Children About Racial Bias
- Talking to Children About Racism: The Time is Now
- Childhood Exposure to Violence
- Talking to Children About Tragedies & Other News Events
Resources for Special Needs Families During COVID-19 Pandemic
Meals, financial help, health tips, condition-specific information, learning tools and more to support families of children with special healthcare needs.
Parents and caregivers have a lot to juggle as they care for a child with special healthcare needs amid the coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) outbreak.
The uncertainty and required social distancing can pose unique challenges, questions and concerns.
The University of Illinois Chicago’s Division of Specialized Care for Children (DSCC)’s team of professionals is here to help.
We’ve compiled a list of resources to help families find the right support: https://dscc.uic.edu/browse-resources/covid-resources/.
The list includes places offering free meals, utility assistance, free Wi-Fi, health tips, educational websites, activities during social distancing and condition-specific information.
Resources are also broken down by our regional office locations.
We’ll continue to update this list as new resources become available. Please check back often for the latest information.
If you have a resource to add to our list, please email us at email@example.com.
Resources to Help Youth Cope with Traumatic Events
State Board shares resources for children, families and educators.
In response to the mass shooting in Las Vegas, the Illinois State Board of Education has compiled a list of resources for parents and educators to help children and youth handle traumatic events. The list was shared in a recent Weekly Message from State Superintendent Tony Smith, Ph.D.:
- Coping with Traumatic Events: Resources for Children, Parents, Educators, and Other Professionals from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)
- Helping Children and Adolescents Cope with Violence and Disasters: What Parents Can Do from the National Institute of Mental Health
- Helping Kids After a Shooting from the American School Counselor Association
- Resources from the National Child Traumatic Stress Network
- Talking to Children About Tragedies & Other News Events from the American Academy of Pediatrics
Additional resources from the State Board on a variety of topics are available at https://www.isbe.net/Pages/Climate-and-Culture.aspx.